The Mindset of Christ

“Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.” – Romans 12:16

The Apostle Paul isn’t asking us to think the same thoughts or agree on every nonessential issue. Instead, he invites us into harmony—like an orchestra where each instrument plays a different note, yet together creates a beautiful symphony. In the same way, believers link arms for one purpose: the glory of God and the good of others. We long for the unbeliever to be saved, for the hurting to be comforted, and for every person we meet to feel valued and loved. This is the mindset of Christ.

Jesus taught us to treat others the way we want to be treated—with compassion, patience, and mercy (Luke 6:32–36). But He also warned us that this kind of love may not be reciprocated. That’s what makes it distinctly Christian. Anyone can love those who love them back; only Spirit‑filled believers can love those who cannot repay, who may never notice, or who may even mistreat them. Paul presses this further: “Do not set your mind on high things.” In a world obsessed with status, influence, and proximity to the powerful, God calls us to walk with the humble. Jesus Himself taught this when He said to invite the poor, the lame, and the blind—those who cannot repay (Luke 14:12–14). True love is not impressed by titles; it is drawn to need.

Humility also requires an honest view of ourselves. Paul warns us not to be “wise in our own opinion,” reminding us that knowing who we are in Christ keeps us grounded. When we practice selfless concern for others, pride loses its grip. We begin to see people the way God sees them—each one precious, each one bearing His image. It’s like a spring garden: every flower, whether tall or small, bright or subtle, contributes to the beauty of the whole. In the same way, every person God places in our path has value, purpose, and a place in His design.

Ask the Lord to give you a humble heart—one that seeks harmony, not superiority. Look for opportunities to honor the unnoticed, listen to the hurting, and value those the world overlooks. Treat others the way you long to be treated, even when it isn’t returned. As you walk in humility and love, your life becomes a symphony that reflects the beauty of Christ to everyone around you.

“No one will ever be a true disciple of Christ unless he is humble. For the unity of the Church is maintained only by humility.” – John Calvin