Connecting With Others

“so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another.” – Romans 12:5

The Christian life is not lived in isolation—it is always connected to others. Our spiritual gifts are meant to build up the body of Christ, not to elevate ourselves. That is why meekness is essential. Meekness is not weakness; it is power under control, demonstrated perfectly by Jesus, who humbled Himself to serve others. When we use our gifts with humility, we strengthen the body and work together toward the common goal of building God’s Kingdom.

Paul also warns us against misusing our gifts. Pride and boasting have no place in the body of Christ, for every member is needed. As 1 Corinthians 12:21 says, “And the eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I have no need of you’; nor again the head to the feet, ‘I have no need of you.’” False humility is equally dangerous—when someone appreciates your ministry, simply thank God for the blessing. We must also resist envy, remembering that God has uniquely gifted each of us. Trying to imitate someone else’s calling or coveting their role only weakens the body. The greatest misuse of gifts, however, is neglect—choosing not to use them at all because our lives are not yielded to God.

Yield your life to Christ as a living sacrifice, and let Him direct how your gifts are used. Just as the human body cannot function if one part refuses to work, so the church suffers when believers hold back. Every gift matters, every role is vital, and every act of service glorifies God. Embrace the gift God has given you, use it faithfully, and remember that you are serving the Lord. When we dedicate our lives to Him, avoid pride, and serve with humility, the body of Christ grows strong, and His Kingdom advances.

“The unity of believers in Christ does not obliterate their individuality; rather, it gives their diverse gifts and functions their true significance. Each member belongs to all the others, and the body cannot be healthy unless every member fulfills its appointed role.” – F.F. Bruce